Little Boxes...

In my morning scroll through Facebook I was casually reading through some of the groups I belong to and realized something.

Many don’t REALLY want the advice they are asking for.

They simply want someone else to validate them. To give them an easy out.

They want a perfect solution handed to them in a beautiful box, tied with pretty ribbon.

The questions are often worded like this:

I have xxx problem with my (husband/child/employer/friend/coworker/sibling/parent). I am looking for solutions or what you may have done in a similar situation.

However, I don’t want to hear about (therapy/medication/holding people responsible/admitting I play a role in this or anything that is